Lately

Last month my step-mom's aunt and uncle (Jim & Fran) were visiting Cape Cod, so they drove into the city to meet us for lunch. We ate at the Union Oyster House, which is America's oldest (still-operating) restaurant - really cool place with good food. The Kennedy's ate there often and we sat right across from "The Kennedy Booth". This is a picture of us at lunch - Jim and Fran are next to me and their traveling buddies are next to Brian.

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We had a picnic and went hiking in the Arnold Arboretum with our friends Ben and Tara.

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Thankfully I had the weekend of our anniversary off. So, we celebrated our 1st anniversary by taking a little trip (in our fabulous new car) to Portsmouth, NH. It's a cute little town on the harbor, right next to Maine. We just walked around the town, shopping in the cute stores, went to Kittery, Maine for a lobster dinner (for Brian), and got hour long massages the next day. We stayed at the Sheraton Hotel and they left us some nice chocolate covered strawberries and champagne. On our way home, we drove through New Castle, NH, which is apparently the smallest town in NH and is entirely on islands. We saw some of the cutest houses there - I could move there in a second! Unfortunately we were focused on driving and I didn't get many pictures though. To end our trip, we stopped to have dinner at Hibachi Japanese Steakhouse. It was just like being back home :) We are certain there are places like these in Boston - we just haven't found them yet. Here are some pictures from our anniversary trip:

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I had to work on the 4th of July in the evening, so we had a picnic lunch in the park with our friends Chris and Cate. We also were housesitting the beagles, Lily & Molly over the weekend, which is A LOT easier to do with a car now. Their house is about 15 min walk from the subway stop, so it was kind of a pain getting there before.

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Lastly, I've been working a ton! After our anniversary weekend, I worked 8 days straight (between VA and Whidden) and then had 1 day off before starting a row of 12 work days. On my day off, we went downtown and wandered around as usual. We went to a cupcake shop that we've heard lots about and got mini cupcakes which were amazing. Then we walked on the bridge over the Charles River - it was a beautiful summer day in Boston. To end the fun on my day off, we had dinner at a nice modern restaurant in Newton (something we couldn't do before because we didn't have a car). So, now I am on day 3 of my 12 day stretch. Things are going really well at work - I am officially working on my own, no more orientation at the VA. I am working as an RN for real now - 2.5 yrs after getting my license! HA! And I only have 3 more days of orientation at Whidden and then I will be working per diem there. So, things are going very well over here!!

Work Life

I have been working at the VA for a month now and things are going great. I really love the unit I am on, which is a surgical/telemetry unit. Everyone is so nice and helpful which makes all the difference. It is a full time job and has been quite exhausting. The past few weeks I have been on day shifts, but next week I will start on evenings. Because I won't get out until midnight, we needed to get a car so that I can get home safely. So, on Saturday we went car shopping with our friends Angel and Dan, and we got a 2011 Subaru Legacy. It has all wheel drive which was what made us so interested. We wanted a sedan with AWD, but they are hard to find (especially ones within our budget). Brian picked the car up on Monday while I was at work and it was such a great feeling to drive it to work on Tuesday! I am able to sleep in an extra 1.5 hrs and get home 1.5 hrs earlier - I was taking 3 different buses to/from work! So, the car is going to make working much easier, especially with my 4 jobs.

Last weekend I was off from the VA so I worked at Whidden to start my evening shift orientation. Therefore, tomorrow will be my 11th day of work in a row!!! That's insane in my book. (Although, I think I did 12 in a row a couple months ago). I really like having the variety of nursing experiences among my 4 jobs and I am trying to keep them all for the time being. Soooo thankful for these opportunities!!

Recent Visitors

Brian's mom came to visit us and stayed with us for 10 days. The day after she arrived, our friend Daniel came for the weekend. The first day I was working, so Brian took them along the Freedom Trail, and then we went to our first Red Sox game that night. On Saturday the guys went to the Samuel Adams Brewery and I wandered around town with my mother-in-law. We met up with the guys and toured around some more, stopping by Harvard. Daniel left the following day and we just went all around the different areas of Boston with Brian's mom. We had such a great time with them!! And the following week I received a message from a friend back home saying he and his girlfriend were in Boston for a few days, so they came over one night for dessert. It was such a nice, unexpected surprise visit! As I am sure I have mentioned before, we have met some really wonderful people here, but we also miss our California friends and family a LOT! Thus, it was so great being able to spend this time with them and we look forward to having more visitors this summer!

Things I Miss...

Besides my family and friends, there are a few other things I miss about living in California:

1. When I ran for exercise rather than to catch a bus.
2. When Johnnie was a person's name, not a hospital gown.
3. I still am trying to figure out where "pocketbook" came from...how is that the same as a purse?!
4. When streets were given names other than Harvard and Washington, and where traffic lights/intersections actually had street signs so you knew where you were going. Oh, and they lit up there too!
   
5. Missing R's (such as "cah" =car, "ova"=over) and Added R's - the one that kills me the most is "Idear"=idea, but I've noticed the extra R on a lot of things ending in A (including my last name). They also add R's to words that are already difficult to say, such as "withdrawral", "drawrers" (drawers). It's like learning a whole new language sometimes! haha
6. When things were just "really good" instead of "wicked good", or "wicked weird"
7. The over-usage of "All Set" in Boston - there is always a place and time for "you all set" or "I'm all set". I kinda miss the chill/surfer Cali "I'm good".

Springtime

Easter Brunch Sangrias

Life's been busy (which is good!), so I haven't had much time to blog. We hope you had a very nice Easter! Our Easter was very nice - it was a beautiful day out, and we went to mass at a chapel downtown, where we had never been before. Then we met Angel, Dan, Amanda, & Josh for a tapas brunch. Soooo good!

Brian enjoying the bone marrow - his favorite tapas

The best corn on the cob ever!!!

Springtime here on the East Coast is gorgeous!! It truly is a wonderful symbol of resurrection and new life! The trees are no longer bare and now it is a lovely green all around. And the flowers are out of this world! I wish I had taken more pictures because some of the flowery trees have already lost a lot of flowers from the rain and wind. Here are a few pictures, but it is nothing like seeing it in person - the best part was watching the transition from naked to "dressed" trees. Quite amazing.

Boston Marathon

Marathon Monday was on April 18, Patriot's day here in Massachusetts (a holiday - no orientation for me or school for Brian). So, we headed down to Coolidge Corner to watch the marathon with some friends. It was an absolutely gorgeous day and there were a ton of people all over the streets - lots of support for the runners!! We had a lot of fun and witnessed the two best marathon times ever! So neat! Here is a slideshow of pictures:

4 jobs?!

We've been so busy - Brian's working on papers for the end of the semester and I have been working a lot. I started orientation at Whidden Hospital in Everett on April 4. The first week consisted of classroom style nursing orientation to learn the computer systems, policies and procedures, etc. After that week, I began orientation on the unit and have worked 4 days there. I am orienting to the unit with a nurse named Dawne and she is a really great, fun nurse.

There are some similarities to the Arbour Hospital, but also a lot of differences. From what I have seen the Whidden population seems a little bit less acute than what I see at Arbour, but I am sure that varies. The nurses at Whidden get about 8 patients and we have about 13 at Arbour. So far the commute to Everett hasn't been too bad either.

I've only worked 1 day at Arbour in the past couple weeks because I have been busy with orientation at Whidden, and I am working shifts at Bay Cove here and there when I can.

On April 5 I interviewed for a summer full time paid externship at the VA Hospital and I got it! I didn't prepare at all for the interview, which probably was helpful actually because I was way more relaxed. So, my externship starts May 9 and will be on a surgical floor (in neuro I think) - I am really looking forward to it (especially for the hands-on experience)! They hired 15 new graduates and there is a possibility of being hired at the end of the externship (maybe per diem or part time, depends on what's available).

So, things are good and I am very grateful for these job opportunities! I am going to try my best to keep the 3 per diems while doing the externship, hoping to work maybe a couple per diem shifts a month just so I don't forget everything I just learned in my orientations - haha. We will see how it all works out. I continue to put this all in God's hands!

I was beginning to feel a little overwhelmed on Monday after my first day orienting on the unit at Whidden. I had thoughts of letting that job go since I had just started, but I really like that it is part of a hospital and I can move to other units later on as an internal employee. I also really like the staff I work with, which is huge. So, I am going to stick with it, but while I was on my way home, feeling overwhelmed, I decided to pull out my Lenten prayer book and do my afternoon prayer, which was this:

"Living God, I don't know why it keeps surprising me
that I can always endure more than I thought possible. ...
God, my friend, let me understand that - to live -
I must break myself up, or be broken, to share the pieces."
from More Daily Prayers for Busy People by William O'Malley

I felt it was so perfect for me that day and it reminded me that God has me right where I am supposed to be. And even though I have been wanting to have just 1 full time job for ease and convenience, God has provided me with 4 jobs to allow me to share myself with them all. :)

Work life and other updates

Wandering around downtown near Frog Pond

We are doing well over here on the East Coast! I've been really busy with work which is very exciting! I've pretty much been working full time between Bay Cove clinic, Arbour hospital, and babysitting still. Since I haven't written in a while, I should let you know that I didn't get the job at MGH, but that's okay. Of course I was bummed about that, but I know God has a plan for me. I have been enjoying my jobs at Arbour and Bay Cove, and I will be starting orientation at CHA Whidden soon for their psych unit. Hopefully I can keep track of all my jobs! haha. I also just submitted an application for a summer paid externship through the VA, so we'll see!

Arbour life - I have worked 5 shifts on my own now, on 4 of the 5 units. The last two shifts were on the less acute unit and I was looking forward to a slighter easier day, but that definitely didn't happen. My first day I stayed 2 hours late and the 2nd day was 1.5 hrs, but the past couple shifts I left in less than an hour after the end of the shift. Not bad ~ I'm improving! However, when I work the evening shift (3-11:30pm), Brian likes to meet me there so we can take the buses home together. But since it is a locked facility and way past visiting hours, he has to wait outside in the cold...and the waiting lately has been about 45 minutes or so until I finish all my documentation. Another bummer about the evening shift is that buses don't run as frequently at that hour and the last ones are around 12:45am. Last Fri night, I got out at 12:30am and we took a cab home instead of waiting in the cold. I am working 4 evening shifts this week and it is my goal to be out by 11:45 or 12 at the latest! I am definitely learning time management skills...

Just a couple stories for you:

• My first day I was on one of the acute units, had 2 discharges (the first being one of the most impatient people I've seen yet!), and 1 patient who fell 4 times throughout the day requiring wound care the last time which ended up getting him a visit to the ER at another hospital (which means paperwork!). I finally discovered that he was falling on purpose (he wanted to go to the hospital). Note: some of his falls were on/against toilets - ouch!
• On the other acute unit, there was one patient who called me every other name but Theresa - at least he tried I guess. He kept saying he was going to sue us for $85million because that's what his sister has, but then later he asked me (I wasn't even his nurse that day) to get him his 85million clozaril tablets. Hmmm...I think he likes that number.
• I have heard 3 code blues called in the past couple weeks, but I thought I heard someone mention that there were only 2 code blues in all of 2010. Interesting. (Code blues are much less common at this hospital than one might see/hear in a normal hospital.) Although, the first code blue I heard and responded to was a drill. It was so awesome to see how fast everyone got to where they needed to be and how seriously everyone took it even with a fake torso on the ground.

Us with our friends Deb & Kevin near the North End

Other Updates:

• Spring is around the corner! We are looking forward to more sunshine and warmer weather. And the birds are back!! I didn't even realize just how much I missed them until now. Love listening to them :)
• Brian is no longer dog walking Baxter and Millie. I guess they were still going to the bathroom in the house even after their walks, so it wasn't really beneficial anymore.
• We did, however, take on a new housesitting gig not too far from BC. We watched 2 new Beagles, Lily and Molly, for a night (Brian and I had to share an extremely loud and squeaky twin bed with the two Beagles - let's just say it was a very tight fit). Their house was really close to a lake and also had some of the neatest chandeliers - take a look:

• My nursing school friend, Eula Mei, was just here with her boyfriend JP for a graduation. We met them for breakfast at Metropolis - It was SO great to see and catch up with her.

• Also, about a month ago, my cousin Ian was here visiting his girlfriend who is at BU. We went out for a nice dinner and then they came over for dessert another night. It was so fun to spend time with family here. :)

• We went to our first BC Hockey game - they played Northeastern (a local school), so it was pretty crowded. It was a lot of fun and ended up being a tie game 7-7!

• Lastly, we went ice skating at the end of February. After having just been to the hockey game I was amazed at how easy hockey players make ice skating look. I can hardly skate forward, but they can skate in every direction, carrying a giant stick, chasing a puck and ramming into walls. I was impressed!

I think that's just about all the updates for now. I know this was a long post, but thanks for reading!!

I'm Published!!!

I was so happy last Friday when I came home from orientation and saw that my thesis manuscript has been published!! The last version was submitted around the end of August and I knew it was going to take some time, but it is done! :) Such a cool feeling!! Here is what comes up from a google scholar search: http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/j.1365-2702.2010.03501.x/full
Let me know if you are interested in reading the full article. :)

Sitting Jobs

About a month ago I started babysitting 2 days a week for 9.5 hrs a day for a family close by (about an 8 minute walk away). The mom works from home, but I keep Jake happy and quiet. :) They like to leave classical music on during the day, but one day she left to go into the office and I put some Toddler Tunes on for a bit (bad me!) - but he loved it! This is me dancing and making a fool of myself to keep him smiling (he's teething) and he was pretty fascinated with the blinking timer light on the camera. I should also add that I was given a W4 on my first day of babysitting here...that was a first for me in my 15 years of babysitting!

Jake is 9 months old now and in the 100th percentile for head circumference. His mom said he is very "top heavy" and thus doesn't like to be on his tummy much. Therefore, he might end up walking instead of crawling first. He loves to stand and can balance for about 2-3 seconds at times by himself. It was fun helping him build these muscles and work with him on this. :) I had to take a few weeks off from babysitting him because of orientation, but my friend Stephanie (a child Occupational Therapist) is free on Thursdays, so she has been helping occasionally.

I haven't babysat for the other family in a while - the kids kept having snow days and I had interviews, so it wasn't really working out. There were a couple times that I got a text from the mom canceling while I was waiting in the cold for the bus - that was pretty frustrating, but I was just glad both times that happened I hadn't gotten on the bus yet.

Brian has been doing the dog walking for me still and plans to continue that for a little longer. We housesat for them a couple weekends ago, which went pretty well. Only 1 thing of ours was destroyed by chewing (Brian's insole - I think she was going for his snow sneaker but discovered the insole was more interesting!). They didn't bark much and were actually more well behaved while we housesat than when we walk them! They are the cutest beagles!! This is Millie, the younger more crazy one, on the left, and Baxter with the bone on the right.

That's all the updates in the sitting job world.